Between Friends... is it necessarily to have such high expectations that some people had listed... is expectations a necessary compartment of trust... loyalty... love... happiness.....???? I find that expectations = problems because not every human can figure and see through the expectations that others had put up for them or even carry them out well.... and when an expectation is not completed or completed in a visible way ... how often would the person tell the other about how they feel.. and what happens after that is misunderstanding... a misunderstanding that will only build up if not been said and when you know about it... it can be too late... and matters gets worse... and sometimes the sadder thing is that you know about it from other people instead of the actual person....feelings gets more bottle up and incompatibility is evident between each other... an incompatibility that can further distant the relationship that one holds within and in the end .... the friendship would be at lost... broken
Things that can be fixed may not get fixed in the end because of one's thought of not telling the other person and deepening the misunderstanding... the words of explanation and sorry may not be important anymore but it can also be important as well because how should I say this.. it relieves your mind off on what is the real truth
I dont know myself if I had put up expectations or not because I dont remember but currently I dont think so and if I did I wouldnt get that disappointed when its not met and I know that i can get over it quickly.... because I know that it is not worth it .....................................................
Friends are a precious gift that is highly valuable and hard to find ..... but do we treasure them???? Can we compromise and accept each other????
Why do I find that I cannot accomplish them because the thing that I find now is that in the future when everyone parts in their own ways...... I will lose many of them... not all except some because as time flies.... as more things are happening... I can clearly see the incompatibilities that are jumping out here and there between me and it deepens ........................................................ it may have deepen alreadly for them..... i dont know.......... but only now can I see that................... our destiny to be friends.... is it meant to be? This reminds me of a while ago at school during a little tarot card session the destiny to stay together as 1 whole came out as the same result for everyone that its not going to happen ..... maybe thats fate and a teacher once said that after High School you may be lucky enough to stay close to 1 friend.... now I can understand the meaning of that and even believe it.....
hahahahahah Im tired..... im sooo tired from the constant same procedure that Im getting.... (sigh)
